Tuesday, December 9, 2014

Life is Short

A few weeks ago I was able to attend a funeral for the father of one of Jace's friend's. He was diagnosed with cancer in April and passed away in November at 55. We were not especially close with the family, but Jace really wanted to be there to support his friend.

This man was in the Mormon Tabernacle Choir, and about half of the choir was at his funeral. They sang multiple musical numbers and filled the chapel with their angelic voices. During those songs, I was struck with how happy he must be, listening to his friends sing praises to his Savior as they celebrated this man's earthly life. Music is incredibly powerful. The spirit was palpable as we listened to them sing. It was a beautiful moment on a difficult day.

As his brothers and sisters spoke of him, there was such love and joy as they shared memories and moments with us. One brother talked about how as their lives had become busy, they had lost touch. He told the audience, "Don't wait until those you love are sick or dying before your reconnect and bond. Sometimes a text is not enough. Be with the ones you love. Support them. Really know them. Really love them."

The last thing that hit home was they way each speaker lovingly spoke of his kind and generous heart. He was a peacemaker and full of love, always willing to serve or share a smile. They talked about his humility...he worked most of his life for Deseret Industries, he was never going to be rich or famous or well known, but he shared his love and all he had with those around him. In the end, that is all the matters. The stake center was full to the stage with people whom he had touched along the way. I imagine he looked down at a life well lived. 

I was incredibly grateful to be at the funeral...grateful for my own life and the time I have here on earth and grateful for the fresh perspective I gained as I learned more about what it means to really live. 




THE HAND OF THE LORD HELPING GUMMY AND GUMPY IN HAITI IN A DIFFERENT WAY


As most of you know, we have a Humanitarian Assignment that takes us, literally, all over the world.  One of the countries to which we are assigned is Haiti.  Two and a half years ago we were asked to go to Haiti and develop a program whereby the people could be given the opportunity to become more self-reliant.
There have been so many times when we have felt the “hand of the Lord” guide us in this assignment in Haiti!  Just the fact that we were able to develop a program and implement projects which now involve some 240 different families in 12 Wards and Branches, is a virtual miracle in and of itself.  This could not have been done without the intervention of the Lord and his direct inspiration.  It certainly could not have been done through our own understanding and experience.

A particular example of the Hand of the Lord happened this (2014) fall:

The projects which have been developed in Haiti involve families raising chickens – primarily meat birds (broilers).  These are people with little or no experience in raising the chickens, and no experience in handling money or marketing their products.  So part of the program is training.  Specialists train in nutrition, construction of coops, how to raise and care for the chickens, and, perhaps most importantly on budgeting, personal finance and marketing.

We have felt good about the experts who have taught about nutrition and construction and how to raise the chickens.  There are local experts in these fields, and the results have been good.  The Church has a training program for businesses and finance, and there had been some local leaders in Haiti trained in this training program.  They had taken the first few projects and conducted the “finance” training.  It appeared at first that this was very adequate.

However, little things kept popping up which made us wonder.  Nothing major and nothing that would give us reason for real concern.  But when we made our visit to Haiti in September, we had very strong impressions that the Church Members who worked for the Church with whom we were working on the projects needed some additional training.  This need for training manifested itself in rather obvious ways.  In addition, we felt an uneasy discomfort about the training the families were receiving on the budgeting and finance and marketing.  There was nothing we could put our finger on, but the impression was so strong
that we could not “shake” it.

So we made a request that we be allowed to go back to Haiti in November (the last place we really wanted to go in November) and train the two men we worked with on their administration.  We determined we would visit projects with them, but would spend two full days just refining, planning and teaching.  Then we requested that we attend one of the training courses on Budgeting, Personal Finance and Marketing which was being given in one of the Wards which was instigating a new “Broiler” project.

Our training went well.  It became very obvious that the two men with whom we work needed further development in their skills.  So this part of the November trip was a huge success – and we felt the direction of the Lord the entire time we were meeting.

 Four or five hours were set aside to attend the financial training in the Ward – as a matter of fact we had allocated a full day for this.  We attended the training, and as the spirit had whispered, it was a disaster.  It was not well organized, the trainer was not well prepared, and the material presented was totally inadequate.  No one in Haiti had caught this in the other Wards.  Everything was reported as going well.  While there were little things that bothered us, there was nothing that would have been dramatic enough for us to ask for the opportunity of sitting in on a training.  It was totally inspiration.

So we stepped in and with the help of a local leader, took over and conducted the remainder of this particular training.  We made sure we did not offend the trainer, and actually he had done the best he knew how to do.

From this experience we learned that there needed to be a better understanding of what was to be taught, and that we needed to have more qualified Trainers.  It was obvious that we needed to be a curriculum for the course.

So that night we went back to our hotel, and sat down and made an outline of what needed to be taught in the course.  Then from that outline we prepared a detailed step by step outline of what the course should contain.  This was all accomplished in the space of about three hours or so.  There was no way that we as inexperienced and unknowledgeable people could have done this.  It was the hand of the Lord and there can be no question about it.  We were overwhelmed when, at the close of the evening we realized what had been accomplished.  We knelt and gave thanks for the guidance and direction we had been given.  The Lord had taken control and had insured that what needed to be done was accomplished.

It is hard to even explain this and have it as impactful as it was to us.  But we can testify that in this situation as in many others in Haiti and other countries, the Lord inspired us and took us by the hand and made it possible for us to accomplish what needed to be done – even things that we did not know needed to be done.


The Lord is in charge and if we listen to the whisperings of the Spirit, He will lead us and direct us.

Monday, August 11, 2014

Keaton: Hand of the Lord

I am running out of time, but I have a pretty cool story that happened yesterday. I sat down next to this lady on the bus, and I tried to give here a card and start a conversation. She initially ignored me and then took a card. She then mentioned that she was having a bad day, and I just simply replied I hope that it gets better. She looks at her phone for five minutes , and then she asks where can she get a Book of Mormon. At this point we were at our stop, but we stayed on the bus and were able to get her number, and hopefully see her this week. I thought that was a cool miracle, it is the little things that you do that make a difference sometimes. 

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

The Lord Builds Us Up: Gummy and Gumpy

Dear Family:

When we talk about the hand of the Lord in our lives, we sometimes overlook some of the obvious.

Somewhere along the line the Lord has blessed us with energy and vigor (when we say “us” we mean our family – not just Gummy and Gumpy).  Isn’t this the hand of the Lord?  Almost without exception, couples tell us after our visits that they cannot imagine how we get everything done and how much energy we have.  The comments from the couple below are quite typical.

We just thought – this energy and vigor is a great example of the hand of the Lord in our lives – and we are most grateful.  We can take no credit for this personally – it is a gift from Heavenly Father.  This gift of energy and vitality has certainly made it possible for us to be an instrument in His Hands quite a bit beyond the age which you would expect to be functioning in the type of work we are doing.  We acknowledge this special blessing and give thanks to the Lord for granting us this opportunity.

Mom & Dad

From: Jeffrey Hy Talley [mailto:jtalley@ldschurch.org E/S Talley are the Humanitarian Senior Couple with whom we worked for the past couple of weeks in Peru. They are ten years younger than we are.

Dear Elder and Sister Cullimore, 
We hope your trip to Ecuador and back to the States was successful and safe. 
Taking a little time to reflect on the 10 days you were here in Peru with us, leaves us with no doubt that this part of your trip was very successful. 

Our first thought and feeling is one of much gratitude to both of you for your time, efforts and knowledge that you have been willing to share with us. And we are very grateful to our Heavenly Father for the many wonderful experiences we had with you during our trips to Chiclayo and Iquitos. We feel that your tireless efforts and hard work will be a great blessing to the people here in Peru and to us.

Our second feeling and thought is, where do you get the energy to do all that you do? I believe Audrey and I both came away feeling like wow, we need to get in better shape if we want to stay up with the Cullimore's. You are a great example of getting things done and giving service when most would be taking a more easy road in life. Thank you for your example!

Thank you again for all that you have done and for your friendship. We will do our best to move this work forward in a way that will hopefully be productive and sustainable. 

We will keep you posted on our progress and look forward to more opportunities in the future to work together with you in this great work that we have been blessed to participate in. 

Muchisimas Gracias por todo, 

Jeff and Audrey 

Healing Power of the Lord: Teisha

This is such a difficult experience for me to share but I honestly cannot think of a better example of the Healing Power of the Lord and I hope that each you can see how powerful the Lord truly is in our lives.
As many of you know Tommy and I have hit a very difficult path in our marriage…  The end of March Tommy and I had started fighting about his relationship with a co-worker and within a week he had decided to move out. He moved in with this woman and in all since of the word “gave up” on life. He began having an affair with her and started neglecting his family. Once he made this decision things moved very quickly on my end. I filed for divorce immediately. Things continued to escalate between us in a negative way.   The first of June Tommy started telling me he wanted to fix our marriage and how truly sorry he was…. As you can imagine I was beyond angry.  He had gotten his own place and had started taking the steps of repentance. I say steps because meeting with the Bishop is one small step, to truly repent of something you must transform and take action to ensure those mistakes do not happen again.  In the beginning I did not care what he said I was set on going through with the divorce and moving on with my life…. But throughout the month my heart started to soften and I began to realize how important my eternal family was.
I can truly testify of the healing power of the Savior from my experience. I don’t think I ever truly understood the Atonement until I was put in this situation. I am a very stubborn person who has the attitude that I can do everything on my own…. Also extremely prideful so for me to try and forgive Tommy in my mind was I sign of weakness.  Through the Power of the Atonement my heart has softened more than words can express.  At the first of June I literally could have cared less if I ever talked to Tommy again in my life but now I am fighting to save my eternal family. Only the Atonement and the Lord could make such a drastic change in someone’s heart.  I have never been alone in this trial in life and I know the Lord has watched over me and my children and given me the strength to endure this trial.
I want to include this in here as almost a warning to others…. Nurture your Marriage.  Tommy is without a doubt my best friend and the person I chose to spend eternity with but we became selfish in our marriage. Tommy became very self focused and we both lost focus as to what truly mattered in life. We did not do family prayer, scripture study, family home evening, we never truly understood how to make our family grow in the correct direction.  We also did not nurture our marriage—Tommy and I rarely took a night out without our children and we have not taken a vacation for the two of us in over 5 years.  You must do this. Reflecting back on my marriage with Tommy I can tell you where our short comings were and how we got to such a difficult trial in our life.  Tommy grew up with a very difficult background- his mom abandoned him at a young age and his father was emotionally abusive. I only include this because they way Tommy handled our problems was a learned behavior; your spouse might not handle something as extreme as Tommy did but that does not mean your marriage is safe.  Nurture it, love your spouse!
Trials are given to us for a reason and although it is so difficult to see while going through the trail we always come out stronger. Dieter F Uchtdor states, “It is often in the trial of adversity that we learn those most critical lessons that form our character and shape our destiny.” Without a doubt this is true for me. I have learned the true meaning of the atonement, I have learned the healing power of the Savior, and I have learned what kind of person I want to be and what kind of mother I will be.
Tommy and I both want to fight for our eternal family and although I know we have a very difficult road ahead of us I know that through the healing power of the Lord I will be able to forgive Tommy for his transgressions and that we will be able to grow together in our marriage if we both truly turn our will to God.   Lastly, I want to reference an article that made such a strong impact on me when deciding what to do in my marriage:  https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2007/04/divorce?lang=eng

Friday, July 25, 2014

Lost

Hopefully Teisha doesn't mind me sharing this on here!  It's not my experience but I was part of it.

Earlier this week, there was an early open day for season pass holders at Cowabunga Bay.  Both Teisha and I have passes there and we see each other there from time to time.  I happened to have saved some extra chairs and saw her come in so she was sitting right by us that day.  Because it was an early open event, they had a DJ there that was playing music and interacting with the crowd.

She packed up earlier than me and headed out.  Not long after I saw her leave, I heard the DJ announce that a little 3 yr old boy with blonde hair was lost and his name was Kinkade and to please look for him.  I immediately knew it was Teisha and started looking around for him.  When I couldn't see him in the pool area I was in, I started toward the main gate and found Teisha.  She had told me that she was putting Tennyson in the car and when she turned around Kinkade was gone.  She had looked all over the parking lot and at the bowling center across the parking lot and she could not find him.  

The DJ announced that they were still looking for him and I went around the back part of the park and ran into a teacher's aide from Addie's school who was also walking around looking for him.  When I explained that I had looked everywhere in the park with no sign of him but that Teisha had told me she had been in the parking lot when she lost him, she headed out there to look for him. 

I continued to look in the park and then went to find Teisha.  She and I were headed out to the parking lot when we saw the aide from Addie's school and she said she found him out in the parking lot, three or four rows out on a little island of grass.  At that same time, Tommy pulled up and saw him so he picked him up and met up with Teisha at the front gate. 

There is no doubt in my mind that the hand of the Lord was in this in many ways.  For me to be at the waterpark and see her, for the DJ to be there and able to announce for everyone to hear, for the teacher's aide that I knew to be there and looking for him and run into me, it is definitely not a coincidence.   Having lost Addie once before, I know what Teisha was feeling like and it's a terrible feeling.  I was just glad that I was there and able to help and that he was found safe and sound! 


It's good to have these kind of reminders that the Lord is always watchful and mindful of us and is involved even in the smallest of things!

Sunday, July 20, 2014

Blessings in Peru






Our trip to Peru has been to help the couple and the Area Leaders here understand the concepts and mechanics of the Self-Reliant (Family Food Production) programs.  Everyone is so in tune to doing things for other people, and these programs are designed for the local leaders to be totally responsible for the projects.  When the missionaries direct the program or the area leaders give directions and make them mandatory, there is seldom ownership in the projects by the people and their leaders.  These are projects that the people want – want more than almost anything in their life.  They have to be committed and the local leaders have to have total ownership.

The Nauta Branch which is described below is about as remote as you can get without being in the jungle its self.  Iquitos is a remote large City that can be reached only by boat or plane and Nauta is a village about a two hour drive from Iquitos.  Before we left for Peru, our supervisors in SLC discouraged us from considering this remote branch – which is a Mission Branch.  It is so remote that it is not a part of a Stake or District, but supervised by the Mission President.  Because the people are so poor and want this project and because they have demonstrated that they are willing to work, the Mission President (who will ultimately be responsible) and his wife have requested that this Branch be considered.  The Area Leadership has agreed that they should be given an opportunity.

One more thing before you read the report:  The Branch President is the key pivot person in these projects.  He is responsible for interviewing the people, insuring that the participating families are committed and that they understand their responsibilities.  He – with the Branch Council and a called Specialist are responsible for developing the project – everything from developing the plan and the budget to insuring that it is implemented.

NAUTA
NAUTA BRANCH
We continue to have reinforced that the Lord is directing this work.  Nauta is a Village (including small surrounding sub-villages) of about 30,000 people.  It is about a 2 hour drive from Iquitos on the banks of a tributary of the Amazon River.  If Iquitos seems to be isolated; Nauta is really in the outlying area. The Branch there has about 250 members with an average attendance at sacrament meeting of 150.  The members – according to the local leaders – are very poor but hard working.

Nauta Branch is a Mission Branch.  The Branch President reports directly to the Iquitos Mission President.  President Gomez is the Mission President of the Iquitos Mission.  It is President Gomez and his wife who have petitioned the Area Presidency for the Nauta Branch to have a project.  Thus we were assigned to visit this Branch to evaluate the possibilities and assist with the development of a project.

We drove to Nauta for a 4:00 p.m. meeting with the Branch President.  We were told after we arrived that the Mission President was also planning to attend.  The arrangements for the meeting had been set up by a counselor in the Mission Presidency and E/S Talley (The Humanitarian Missionary Couple with whom we were working) had never had a discussion with the Branch President.  After arriving in town we were informed that the meeting was really supposed to start at 3:30 p.m. so we arrived at the meetinghouse shortly after 3:00 p.m.  A counselor in the Branch Presidency was already there and almost immediately members started to file in.  By the time the meeting was over we had about 25 – 30 in attendance.  So the meeting to train and educate the Branch Presidency turned out to be a member meeting because so many are interested in having an opportunity to be trained and have a garden.

At about 3:30 p.m. one of the counselors informed Elder Talley that the Branch President was not going to be at the meeting.  At this point we all became concerned about trying to get the basis for a project started without the key player being in attendance – but we had all of the people there, so it was determined to proceed. We had to exert a lot of pressure to continue with the complete presentation.  The Couple was so discouraged that they wanted to give an overview.  We indicated that if the Mission President were really going to be there, that this was a wonderful opportunity to train him and to insure that he understood the responsibility and role he had to play.  It is to him that the  Branch President would have to report.  We waited for President Gomez and his wife to arrive and started the meeting.  We determined that since President Gomez was the authority to whom the Branch President reported, and since President Gomez was the person who requested the project, that the presentation would be directed to him. By the end of the meeting it became clear that President Gomez was the person who should make the presentation to the Branch President and who should train him.  More on this later.

Elder Talley made a brief presentation on the garden project concept, then he used the Family Food Production power point (Which we developed and which he translated into Spanish).  A strong effort was made to commit the members.  President and Sister Gomez are fully vested in this concept and they were of great help as the meeting progressed.  As it turns out Sister Gomez was one of nine children who were raised with a garden and small animals.  She said they were really poor, but never knew it because they had these resources which made them self-reliant.

The meeting went very well and there was a feeling of hope expressed.  After the meeting we met with President Gomez and his wife and the two counselors in the Branch Presidency.  We gave Pres. Gomez a copy of the power points presentations, and Elder Talley reviewed all of the forms and procedures with President Gomez and the Counselors.  President Gomez accepted full responsibility for training the Branch President and he understands very clearly the responsibilities of all the local leaders – he has ownership, and he is willing to take the time and do what is required to develop the leaders and the project.

The way the day evolved, the Mission President was trained, and the members had the opportunity explained to them, and the Mission President accepted the responsibility of training the Branch President and assisting in the development of the project.  The outcome of the day’s activities could not have been better – and they were entirely different than we had planned.  The chance for this Branch to have successful projects was enhanced immeasurably.  The Lord is in charge.

This may not seem as dramatic to you as you read this as it was to us.  We were discouraged from making this Branch one of the presentations.  The events that developed during the day made it appear that we had wasted literally a full day to go make the presentation.  The Couple wanted to “bag it” when we found the Branch President was not going to be there.  The chance of the Mission President being there was so remote it is hard to calculate (he had just arrived from another city the morning of the presentation, and he and his wife had a Sister Missionary that was ill and had to be taken to the hospital shortly before they had to leave to come to the meeting.  Everything was working against us – it seemed.  But to have the Mission President spend that much time and be trained in the program and have him train the Branch President was the best of all worlds.  

Sunday, June 15, 2014

FATHER'S DAY 2014


I can definitely see the hand of the Lord in my life as I consider the parents and home where I was sent to live.  I am grateful for parents who listen to the spirit and act on promptings they receive (like moving to Utah when we all thought they were ruining our lives!).  

I actually wrote this post (no it is not an obituary) a year ago but thought it was appropriate to share today!

FATHER'S DAY 2013

I am surrounded by men who exemplify what Fatherhood is all about.  Of course, I must start by paying tribute to my own father.  



For 53 years this man has been my rock! 
 I can never remember a time that I didn't have him on a pedestal.  
3 Things I love about my dad:
1)  HE LOVES MY MOTHER!  
I have always known this fact.  I have always known that she is the most important person in his life.  Her comfort  and her happiness are paramount.  He loves to be with her--he wants her with him.  I can remember as a child that sometimes I thought it was so "dumb" that mom always had to go with him on business trips--we needed her more than he did, right?  
Sister Elaine Dalton, a previous YW General President said the following in 
October Conference of 2011, 
"“The most important thing a father can do for his [daughter] is to love [her] mother.” By the way you love her mother, you will teach your daughter about tenderness, loyalty, respect, compassion, and devotion. She will learn from your example. . .what qualities to seek in a future spouse. You can show your daughter by the way you love and honor your wife that she should never settle for less. Your example will teach your daughter to value womanhood. You are showing her that she is a daughter of our Heavenly Father, who loves her. "
Of all the qualities mentioned by Sister Dalton and that my dad has taught me,  I hope I have learned to befiercely loyal and devoted to those I love--just like he is!
2) HE LOVES TO WORK AND PLAY!  
I have often joked that work is my father's play. At 78 he is still one of the hardest working men I know.  Whether it be in the office, in a church assignment, in the garden--he can outwork even the youngest and strongest in our family.  His schedule would weary a 25 year old.  His stamina is unbelievable.  Too busy? Too tired?  Not in his vocabulary or mind set!
If I have heard this quote from Heber J Grant once, I have heard it a million times from the lips of my father:

“Our primary purpose was to set up . . . a system under which the curse of idleness would be done away with. . . and independence, industry, thrift and self respect be once more established amongst our people,” President Heber J. Grant said during the October 1936 general conference. “The aim of the Church is to help the people to help themselves. Work is to be re-enthroned as the ruling principle of the lives of our Church membership” (in Conference Report, Oct. 1936, 3).
Work is a principle that has been taught, demonstrated and praised in our home.  To work hard and do a job right and well is a hallmark of what our parents have taught us.

While no one works harder than my dad no one PLAYS harder either.  It is agreed in our family that no one plans a better vacation than my dad.  No holds barred!  Go big or go home!  Have the whole experience and make it a memory.
From allowing us to taste lobster in a fancy restaurant as kids to ordering cheeseburger pizza for all the great grandkids in Branson--you don't miss any minute of an experience when you are with dad.  A bakery or an ice cream shop is never passed by! Purchasing Amish quilts or Santa hats--because it is part of the experience--is part of the fun!
He has always been so generous in providing opportunities for us to have fun as a family--no matter how large the family gets!  It is something I hope I can do for my children and grandchildren and great grandchildren!

3) HE IS A GREAT TEACHER
 My dad has a gift to teach!  He has a gift with words (both verbal and written) and expressing his thoughts and feelings in a way that is clear and interesting and understandable.  He is always looking for teaching moments and ways to share his testimony.  His abilities as a speaker are legendary and in demand.  More than once I have had someone recall a talk that dad had given in a Stake Conference or a lesson from a gospel doctrine class that impacted their lives for good.  His teaching capacity goes beyond the spoken word into action.  He lives what he teaches and that in itself is a sermon.  You can feel confident if you are following in his footsteps that you are headed in the right direction--spiritually or physically.

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY DAD!  I LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU WILL EVER KNOW!

Saturday, June 14, 2014

REMEMBERING GRANDPA


The older I get the more that I see the hand of the Lord in the little details of our lives.  As I consider my heritage--the parents and grandparents who have influenced my life, I am most grateful for a kind Heavenly Father who knew exactly the family I would need.  

Grandpa passed away on June 14, 1986.  Flag Day!  Every year this connection has made it easy for me to spend a few minutes thinking about this great man and his service in the Kingdom, to his family and to many others who crossed his path.

Recently in an assignment that I have in Church Hosting I became acquainted with another woman who serves on a committee with me.  As we visited, we made connections and they eventually led to Grandpa and Grandma.  This woman's father, I believe his last name is Power, was in the military and to this day--he is in his 90's--recounts stories of the kindness and acceptance and direction he received from Grandma and Grandpa.  He has told his daughter many times of his gratitude for that relationship.  

Grandpa has been gone for 28 years and still people are talking about his influence in their lives.  Quite a tribute to quite a man!  How blessed we are to be part of this family.





James A. (Alfred) Cullimore


1906 - 1986


  • Born 1906 Lindon, Utah
  • Baptized as a child; Aaronic Priesthood as a youth; Melchizedek Priesthood as a young man
  • Mission to California 1925-1927
  • Married Grace Gardner 1931, Salt Lake Temple; three children
  • President of British Central Mission 1960
  • Assistant to the Twelve 1966-1976
  • First Quorum of Seventy 1976-1978
  • Married Florence Prows 1977, Salt Lake Temple
  • Named Emeritus General Authority 1978
  • Died 1986 Salt Lake City, Utah


    This biographical shetch is adapted from "News of the Church: Elder James A. Cullimore Dies" in the  Ensign, Aug. 1986, page 74.

    Elder James A. Cullimore, an emeritus member of the First Quorum of the Seventy, was memorialized by members of the First Presidency, of his quorum, and of his family at funeral services in the Assembly Hall on Temple Square Wednesday, June 18.    He died in a Salt Lake City hospital on Saturday morning, June 14. He was eighty years old.
    President Gordon B. Hinckley, First Counselor in the First Presidency, conducted the funeral and read a brief note from President Ezra Taft Benson, who had himself been hospitalized briefly because of a flu-like illness and was unable to attend.
    “God bless this great man. I loved him dearly,” President Benson said.
    President Thomas S. Monson, Second Counselor in the First Presidency, spoke of Elder Cullimore as a man of good cheer, a man of talent, a man of peace, a man of love, a man of God. He was a man without guile who loved everyone and was eager to serve wherever called.
    Elder Marion D. Hanks of the presidency of the First Quorum of the Seventy testified that his brother in the priesthood “still lives, and always will.” He quoted from Isaiah 61:3, which speaks of those who are “trees of righteousness,” and noted that Elder Cullimore was one of those.
    Elder Cullimore’s son Kelvyn outlined his father’s exemplary service as husband, father, Church leader, and employer, referring to him as “a beacon light that has set each of us on the path to peace and happiness.”
    Elder Cullimore had served as a General Authority for more than twenty years, having been sustained as an Assistant to the Twelve on 6 April 1966. He was one of the original members of the First Quorum of the Seventy when it was organized in 1976, and was named to emeritus status in 1978.
    James Alfred Cullimore was born 17 January 1906 in Lindon, Utah, one of twelve children of Albert Lorenzo and Luella Keetch Cullimore. His father was a bishop and also owner of a grocery store, where young James received his early experience in retailing.
    He served a mission to California in 1925-27, then returned to his schooling at Brigham Young University, where he had attended one year before his mission. He was elected student body president for 1930-31.
    It was in 1931 that he married another BYU student, Grace Gardner, in the Salt Lake Temple. She died in 1975, and he married Florence Prows in 1977, also in the Salt Lake Temple.
    After receiving his bachelor of science degree from BYU in 1931, James Cullimore attended New York University School of Retailing on a scholarship, receiving a master’s degree in 1932. He worked as a furniture buyer for Gimbel Brothers department store in New York City, then for a Chicago department store. He also worked in Sioux City, Iowa, before taking a job with an Oklahoma City store in 1937.
    In 1946, he opened his own Oklahoma City furniture store, which quickly became successful.
    James Cullimore served the Church in a variety of positions during his business career, including as a branch president in Sioux City and Oklahoma City and as president of the West Oklahoma District. When the Oklahoma Stake was organized in 1960, he was called as its first president. He had served in that position for only a matter of weeks when he was called as president of the Central British Mission.
    Following his return from England, he was called to be a member of the Church’s Priesthood Welfare Committee. Then in April of 1966, he was called as an Assistant to the Twelve.
    Elder Cullimore served as an Assistant to the Twelve until October of 1976 when all the Assistants were released and called into the then newly reorganized First Quorum of the Seventy. In 1978, in recognition of his long years of service and due to factors of age and health, Elder Cullimore was granted Emeritus status and named an Emeritus General Authority. As noted, he died in 1986.

Bibliography
   “The Reconstitution of the First Quorum of the Seventy,” Ensign, Nov. 1976, p. 9
   “The Sustaining of Church Officers,” Ensign, Nov. 1976, p. 10
   "News of the Church: Elder James A. Cullimore Dies" Ensign, Aug. 1986, p. 74
   2005 Church Almanac, p. 7



This article was in the 1974 August Ensign.  I thought it speaks well to the theme of our blog!

Oklahoma City Experience


Oklahoma City Experience

I believe sincerely that our lives are guided by the Lord as we serve him, keep his commandments, and do what we can to help build up the Church and kingdom of God on earth. President Joseph Fielding Smith said in his opening talk at the April 1972 conference of the Church, “There is no cure for the ills of the world except in the gospel of the LordJesus Christ. Our hope for peace, for temporal and spiritual prosperity, and for an eventual inheritance in the kingdom of God is found only in and through the restored gospel. To those who have received the gospel we say, Keep the commandments. Walk in the light. Endure to the end. Be true to every covenant and obligation and the Lord will bless you beyond your fondest dreams.”
It is important to keep our lives in tune with the Holy Spirit at all times that we might be assured of the promptings of the Spirit and that we might be able to recognize those promptings. I believe as well that the Lord expects us to make many decisions on our own, as we feel directed by the Spirit. He has said, “… it is not meet that I should command in all things; for he that is compelled in all things, the same is a slothful and not a wise servant … men should … do many things of their own free will … For the power is in them, wherein they are agents unto themselves. And inasmuch as men do good they shall in nowise lose their reward.” (D&C 58:26–28.)
As I look back over my life I can see the guiding hand of the Lord in many things. Let me relate just one such instance. Sister Cullimore and I have lived most of our married life in the missions of the Church. At one time, when we lived in Oklahoma City, we were concerned that our teenage children were not able to have proper association with other children of their age who were members of the Church. Their association was almost entirely with nonmembers, and although they were wonderful young people we worried about them being able to marry in the temple without proper association with members of the Church. Our concern was so great we were considering leaving my employment and moving to an area where they would have this association.
About this time Elder Joseph F. Merrill of the Council of the Twelve was traveling through the mission with the mission president, and he stayed overnight with us. Sister Cullimore poured her heart out to Brother Merrill about our concern over the children. Elder Merrill said, “Don’t be concerned about it; this is where the Lord wants you. I promise you that if you teach your children the gospel, see to it that they attend their meetings in the Church, set a proper example for them in your home, and then when they are ready, see that they attend a Church school, they will marry in the temple.”
I had already made some rather serious commitments in reference to a change in employment that would have necessitated a move from the area. The next morning, after the conversation with Elder Merrill, I coincidently met a real estate dealer who told me of a building available that would be suitable for a furniture business. (I had previously asked him to watch for such a building for me.) In three days I had signed the lease on the building and given notice to my employer that I was leaving. Within thirty days our business was opened.
The Lord blessed us abundantly in the business. We saw the Church grow in the area. Our children have each married in the temple and are all active and involved in the Church.
[illustration] Illustrated by Ralph Reynolds

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Keaton, James A. Cullimore, and Family History!

 This week we saw a lot of success reaching out to less actives, we were able to see three of them. The most notable of them being our lesson with David Knight. He is the first person that Elder Ormsby baptized on his mission, but unfortunately he is a less active. We saw him and we were able to get Brother Flinn a member of the bishopric out on that teach with us.

The lesson ran really smoothly, but halfway through Brother Flinn brought up James A. Cullimore he said that he was a very good speaker. He also asked me a few other questions about him. I actually have a pretty crazy story to tell you guys about that.

      I have been hearing a lot about  James lately, but it peaked when elder Frederickson told me this. I will copy and paste what Elder Frederickson said in his email that he sent out this week.  

"I also had a really cool experience this week with family history. I decided to use some of the Work of Salvation internet hour to go on Family Search and work on the My Family book. I was reading up on one of my great-grandfathers on my mom's side of the family. Naturally, I wanted to see if he served a mission.

According to the document, he did... and his first companion was James A. Cullimore... Elder Cullimore's great-grandfather. WOW. When I read that, I felt something extremely powerful. As if there weren't enough crazy things about the fact that Elder Cullimore and I were companions! When I was skyping my family yesterday, I asked my grandma about all of this and she confirmed it and added that James Cullimore and my great grandfather were best friends. Wow. Talk about the Spirit of Elijah! I immediately formed a bond with my great-grandfather, a man I never met, and strengthened my bond with one of my best friends. What a blessing Family History work is! "

    That just blew my mind elder Frederickson's great-grandfather served with mine how crazy! and they were best friends. I bet President didn't realize all of these things when he decided to have elder Frederickson train me.

Monday, February 24, 2014

Blessings in Haiti

To say that we have been blessed to be involved in these projects/opportunities would be a gross understatement.

We are still doing a lot of training – but we are seeing progress.  It  has been a special experience to work with the Area Seventy, the Mission President, the Stake Presidents, and the Bishops/Branch Presidents.  This is a very strong  group of priesthood bearers and the Women in the Church are equally strong.

This trip – as much as any before we have been made cognizant of the hopelessness of the people and the extreme poverty.  We think that Myanmar was just as poor as Haiti – but in Haiti there just seems to be more lack of pride and desire to be better.  This is not true among the Church Members like it is among the general population.  The dirt and grime and garbage and filth is so prevalent.  While we steel ourselves so it will not bother us too much it certainly “gets to us” from time to time.

One experience is worth repeating:

On Friday afternoon we finished our last meeting  at 4:00 p.m.  We were pleased because we had so much reporting to do and projects to write up – we were anxious to get to our hotel.  We stayed adjacent to the airport this time – for the first time.  The distance from the Bishops Storehouse where we held our last meeting to the airport normally takes 30 minutes – 45 minutes at the most.  Odney, our associate in Haiti was driving and he knows  all the shortcuts.  We had been traveling just about 30 minutes and were getting close to the hotel.  We came down a road and a garbage truck which apparently had engine problems was parked across the road – with no space to around it.  Odney found out that because it was Carnival weekend the driver had determined that nothing could be done till Monday so we could not get through.  We had to circle back and take one of the main roads.  With Carnival causing extra traffic, we knew in a few minutes we were in a pickle. When we got to the main  road it took us two hours to travel three blocks.  After making several attempts at other routes and doing all Odney could we were stuck.  We realized about three hours into the problem that we were very low on gas – but the fourth hour we were riding on empty.  It was pitch black outside – no street lights, of course.  Odney’s phone was dead.  We had used mine, but when we pulled Dad’s out to have him call his wife, we discovered his battery was dead.  No phone, low on  gas, pitch black, total gridlock.  It was the first time in our six trips to Haiti that we felt some fear.  The masses of people walking by and the thousands of motor bikes whizzing around and no place for us to turn.  One false move and we could have been in  trouble.  We both decided to pray – pray first that we would not run out of gas and secondly that somehow the gridlock would break up and we would be able to move more than just a car length every ten  or 15 minutes.  Within about 20 minutes the line of cars in front of us began to move on a slow pace and we made some progress.  Within a few minutes after that we passed the first gas station we had seen for over four hours.  We were able to get some petrol and with a big sigh of relief were able to move  forward.  There is no question in our minds that the Lord answered our prayers – it was to direct and obvious to be anything else.  Finally after five hours we arrived at our hotel – it was an indescribable  relief – in  many ways. This may not  sound  very hair-raising – and, frankly, unless you were there and experiencing  it, it would be hard to comprehend.  But we were there, and we were concerned, and we were grateful to arrive at our destination.  A blessing from the Lord.

We will be in the Dominican Republic next week.  We will be in meetings in Santo Domingo – resolving some problems that have developed and making plans for future Wheelchair Distribution.  So we will be in a much more pleasant and comfortable environment.  We will be out visiting food projects just one day.  The week will be a nice reprieve.  But probably not as many journal entries.